i've been a bit grumpy this raya.. a number of contributing factors... exams, drama raya, klasmate 'rimas' ( haha) memacam la... frankly i dun give a damn anymore.. i just want to do well in my exams insya-Allah
i've seen a lack of empathization process throughout raya this year.. so let's talk about empathy a bit..
definition of empathy by oxford
the power of identifying oneself mentally with ( and so fully comprehending) person or object of contemplation
my definition of empathy..
putting yourself in someones shoes and to anticipate how the person feels..
too often have i seen people complain, nag, moan about THEIR feelings.. THEIR thoughts.. and totally disregarding everyone else's punya thoughts... this is what we call SELFISH.. there is no other word for it.. it sickens me too see this going on.. people nowadays are too apathetic towards everything around them... saying that it's got nothing to do with them.. hal org lain la.. all the bull the can come up with.. this is a general malaise among US malaysians.. we simply do not care anymore about anyone other than ourselves.. that's why we see what's happening now.. with all the crime rate.. the social problems.. people don't think.. ( maybe some think la)
we complain about our feelings without even a thought crossing in our mind.. what are the feelings of other people.. bagusla semua org macam ni.. bravo!
-rant over-
my advice- think before u do something.. i can't give a flying fck for these kind of people anymore.. sorry bout the language.. u can see i'm clearly distressed but not in respiratory distress or any obvious pain
the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference
the opposite of art is not ugliness , it's indifference
the opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference
and the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference
-elie wiesel-
never be indifferent
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